William R. Stixrud
Autor de The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives
Sobre El Autor
Obras de William R. Stixrud
Etiquetado
Conocimiento común
- Nombre canónico
- Stixrud, William R.
- Nombre legal
- Stixrud, William R.
- Género
- male
- País (para mapa)
- USA
- Lugares de residencia
- Silver Spring, Maryland, USA
- Educación
- University of Minnesota (PhD|Educational Psychology)
Harvard Medical School - Ocupaciones
- clinical neuropsychologist
professor
lecturer - Organizaciones
- Larry and the Flames (band)
Children’s National Medical Center
George Washington University School of Medicine
Close Enough (band)
David Lynch Foundation
Miembros
Reseñas
Listas
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Estadísticas
- Obras
- 3
- Miembros
- 246
- Popularidad
- #92,613
- Valoración
- 4.3
- Reseñas
- 6
- ISBNs
- 11
Parents often feel that their children are extensions of themselves, so they seek to imprint their desires on their kids’ lives. As the child matures, this can become psychologically oppressive and even abusive. Instead of fanning this flame, William Stixrud and Ned Johnson invert the paradigm. Rather than obtaining maximal control over your kids’ lives, these authors say, give them as much control as they can handle to teach them responsibility and enjoyment.
In this book, Stixrud and Johnson try to induce this paradigm shift in readers by outlining its benefits. Then they seek to extract what this looks like practically in a typical American parent-child relationship. They address unconventional approaches to early career development along with how to prepare your child not just for college, but for life. Honestly, their take on college is a bit “gloom and doom” for my tastes and unrealistic. For those self-driven, a university experience need not be – and in fact is not – so macabre. But their overall message of encouraging self-control and becoming self-driven is very much welcome in a culture where engineering your kids for success has become dominant.
I wish more parents (like my own, even now as I am in my forties) would read and adopt the authors’ general approach. Personal traits like happiness, contentedness, collegiality, and self-discipline have mattered more in any job I’ve had than degrees and awards. Schoolwork is meant to cultivate these virtues, not be the final word on them. I want to pass that wisdom onto my daughter, and this book can help me envision what that looks like habitually as I raise her.… (más)