This book is dedicated to all the brave women who

have defied so much in their love for women, and to

those women who, for whatever reasons, were unable to

make that commitment or live by it; in our common

pain and rage, let us affirm that our daughters will have

more choices.

And in my own individual journey, this book is for

Alice Bloch, whose strength and support helped me re-

discover my courage, and who has so lovingly shared in

my personal struggles and growth.