Leigh Sales

[a:Leigh Sales|1249719|Leigh Sales|https://s.gr-assets.com/assets/nophoto/user/f_50x66-6a03a5c12233c941481992b82eea8d23.png]' [b:On Doubt|36299318|On Doubt|Leigh Sales|https://images.gr-assets.com/books/1506311286s/36299318.jpg|12351462] is a thought-provoking meditation on the value of constant questioning and testing of accepted truths. Originally published in 2009, this edition was re-released in September 2017 with a postscript from Sales in which she describes 2009 as a "golden era" compared with today. It should be required reading for the "post-truth" world.… (más)

I wonder if I would still be rating this book 5 stars if I were reading it at a different time. So much of what was written resonated with me, and gave me hope.

“If you had asked me before… which of my friends were my favourites, I would have said the funny, charismatic ones: the ones who take you to dinner and make you howl so hard with laughter that it fills your emotional tank. Even when you wake up the next day, fuzzy-headed from lack of sleep and too much wine, you feel great. While I still love company like that, I’ve realised that by far the most valuable friends are the kind ones. They may not be the most sparkling guests at the dinner table or the most memorable makers of wedding speeches. But my god, they are the ones you want to sit with you at the worst of times. They are the ones who know the right things to say and do, because their hearts are empathetic. I’ve come to believe that amongst all the good human qualities, there is none greater than kindness.”… (más)

Leigh Sales is a very well-known Australian television journalist, who hosts a daily current affairs program on ABCTV called “7:30”. It is considered one of the ABCTV’s flagship programs, and Sales has hosted it now for a number of years. What we don’t see as viewers is how much some of the stories on the program affect her. In reflecting on how news is presented, and how stories are dealt with over a period of time, she came to write this book.

In ‘Any Ordinary Day’ she takes us to meet a number of people who have been greatly affected by traumatic incidents. For some it is the sudden death of a loved one, for others a miraculous escape, and in some cases, both. She also speaks with some people whose job it is to offer support to people as they come through their trauma. There’s the Jesuit priest, for example, who teaches Sales to “accompany” the person. It’s not so important to say the right thing, apparently, but simply to be there. But the one who really struck me was the ‘Forensic Counsellor’, whose job it is take family into the morgue for a viewing of their loved one’s body. The process she works through, what she says and explains, and how she assists during the viewing I found to be profoundly moving. I just hope I never have to meet her professionally.

Life is random. Things happen. Sometimes, really bad things happen and there’s nothing one can do about it. It’s not punishment, and often can’t even be rationally explained; it just happens. How one manages life’s surprises (good and bad), and the horrific difficulties that are thrown at one, determines, perhaps, the direction of life post the trauma. Until the next one.

‘Any Ordinary Day’ is a surprisingly uplifting book, considering the despair that Sales’ subjects have been through.… (más)