Obras de Catherine Jhee
Here Lies My Heart: Essays on Why We Marry, Why We Don't, and What We Find There (A Beacon Anthology) (1999) — Editor — 63 copias
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"An Exile's Psalm" is Paul Doty's long poetic meditation on the loss of his long-time lover of twelve years, Wally, to AIDS, and his subsequent feelings of guilt and confusion at his good fortune in finding his new lover, Paul, a couple years later. (I'm not sure if gay marriage was legal anywhere in 1999.)
"On Living Alone" is Vivian Gornick's various feelings about an early marriage, a divorce, years of loneliness, of being "a walker in the city," and, finally, a platonic arrangement of living with another woman, a friend, to simply assuage the feelings of isolation.
One piece that decidedly dates the book is Joel Achenbach's "Homeward Bound," in which he cites Bill Cosby as a role model who got the formula right -
"You go home. You find little things to cherish. You have a favorite chair. You develop a coffee ritual, a storybook ritual, some running jokes."
Hmm... Too bad Cosby didn't stick to that formula. Although Achenbach also says - and this was almost twenty years ago, mind you:"Perhaps there were times when Cos didn't quite make it home." Indeed.
Another particular favorite here is Kate Jennings's "For Better or Worse." She's very hard-edged and realistic about her marriage, at nearly forty to a twice-divorced man twenty-five years older. She jokes wryly about actuarial tables and "reading the obituary page" more regularly. But she finds that an older husband is "extraordinarily supportive," and that "With age, the need in them to be cock of the walk has diminished." Summing up her decision to marry, she says -
"It is a job of work … there is something daffy about the whole enterprise."
Twenty separate pieces here, and something to gnaw on in every one. Like I said - a wide variety of viewpoints about marriage, fidelity, divorce and more here. Well worth the read, even twenty years late. I enjoyed it.
- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER… (más)