This, then, was what a glimpse of truth might be like; hard as stone, beautiful as stars, satisfying as bread.

The Tall Woman is the story of Lydia Moore, a girl born in the Appalachian Mountains of North Carolina and raised in a hard-scrabble world that gets no easier when she becomes a woman and marries Mark McQueen. It is in the years following the Civil War, when the hurt and division has not been healed, that Lydia must find a way to live her life, raise her children, and bind her community together. Dykeman’s descriptions of the mountains and its people are so vivid and real that you close the book feeling you are losing a place you know and friends you can barely bear to leave.

There is a mountain stream that figures in Lydia’s life...a favorite place that she keeps clean and fresh and from which she draws her water. I cast back into my childhood to visits with my Great Uncle Naman, who lived in the North Georgia Mountains, part of the same ridge that crosses North Carolina. One of the things that stands out clearly is going to the church there to clean the graves of my great-grandparents and drinking from the stream that ran behind the churchyard. The water was the clearest, sweetest-tasting liquid that ever touched my lips. I knew Lydia’s stream.

There is a flavor of the mountains that comes from the genuine and easy way Dykeman has her characters speak. There is Aunt Tilda, whose “Eh, law, child” echoed the expressions of my own grandmother and aunts. And such wonderful expressions as “Could he but buy himself for what he's worth, and sell himself for what he thinks he's worth, he'd be princely rich overnight." I laughed aloud at that one and don’t think I will ever forget it.

Lydia’s life is hard, in every way that a life can be. She faces her personal trials with a wisdom and fortitude that is inspirational. She draws her strength from the very mountains she stands upon and from the faith and love she has inherited from her parents.

Sometimes it seemed to Lydia that work was the only certainty, the only lasting truth in a human world of fitful change. Work and the mountains remained. Joy was deceitful and as brief as a summer rainbow. Love was a spear upon which you hurled yourself in ecstasy--to discover pain and bear the wound forever

Even in the face of this, Lydia never gives up. Her progression from girl to wife to mother is gratifying to behold. I loved her, along with every other character with which Dykeman peopled her world. How, oh how, do these kinds of wonderfully written books fade in obscurity? Why is Wilma Dykeman’s name not listed on all these “before you die” lists? I am so happy to have read her at last and hope someone else will pick up this book because of this review and then pass the word on.

My particular thanks to Laura at the Southern Literary Trail who has told me time and again that I didn’t know what I was missing. ( )

My dad told me the MC reminded him of his grandmother. That wasn't enough. ( )

Dykeman is a fine writer of the Southern Appalachians. This story certainly transports the reader to another world with interesting and believable characters. ( )

Lydia Moore grew up in the Appalachian region before the Civil War and married Mark McQueen shortly after it began. Her husband went off to fight for the Union while her father and brother fought for the Confederates. While the men were gone, outliers raided Lydia’s mother’s home, assaulting her and stealing the livestock. A pregnant Lydia returned to her old home place to tend to her mother and brothers and sisters. When her labor began, the doctor was too inebriated to come, so Lydia’s Aunt Tildy delivered the baby, who was turned the wrong way, causing brain damage. After the war, when Mark returned, Lydia learned he had been imprisoned. Her Mark was a changed man who dealt with demons from the war and harbored a deep hatred for the men who had raided Lydia’s mother’s home, blaming his son’s mental problems on them. Through the years, Lydia had more children while dealing with her husband’s alienation and cynicism, hoping that through her love, he would become the man he used to be. Times were rough in their mountain region, but Lydia worked hard, trying to do her best for her children and their small community.

Lydia McQueen is the epitome of a strong Southern woman. She never let challenges daunt her and plowed ahead, trying to do the right thing and persevere through. The Tall Woman tells one woman’s journey through life and the lives she touches as well as the changes she leaves behind. ( )

An absolutely lovely book. I was pulled in from the first chapter, which is testament to Dykeman's narrative mastery. My appreciation of her use of imagery and figurative language, which are almost belied by the simplicity of her narrative style, came later. What is striking is Dykeman's stark and brilliant ability to tell a story. She has the gift. Her story eddies and flows in all the right places, and one gets the feeling she narrates as naturally as she breathes. It is lovely the way her simplistic yet beautiful prose parallels the people and geography she is describing. I found myself extremely moved by the story -- Dykeman's ability to evoke the sense of place, of these people's way of life is powerful indeed. For anyone, everyone, who wants to understand something of this place in the south, this time in the past, but more than that. . . the workings of the human heart. That's what Dykeman hits upon, and that's why this is worth reading. ( )