I was familiar with most of the ideas in this book, but it was really interesting to read so many men's words and commentary on them. From that perspective, I feel I understand on a much deeper level what those topics really mean to them. But there were times when Feldhahn's analysis of her data seemed a little awkward. ( )

Someone told me this would solve the question: "What is he really thinking when you ask him what he's thinking about and he says: 'nothing.'?" ( Feel free to correct the puntuation errors in that sentence. )

I don't think it did.
The goal was good. The execution was muddled for a couple of reasons. 1, the author kept saying how shocked she was when she saw her results. It felt repetitive. 2, there was no hard data to support her data. No "how many people took this survey," no "they were lumped according to age," nada. Maybe that wasn't significant. But I'd still like some evidence that this wasn't a MonkeySurvey type deal. ( )

I don't remember why I put this book on my TBR pile. It was an ok read, it was just very obvious stuff to me. The data from her questionnaires, was interesting and confirmed so much of what I felt I already knew. The inner lives of men, is really not that big of a mystery. Love Languages was a much more enlightening book. Maybe I read them out of order.
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A book that showcases the inner lives of men, how to understand and to flow with the way they reason, and to know the reason they do what they do. ( )

I did a lot of underlining so Crystal knew what applied to me. ( )