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InscrÃbete en LibraryThing para averiguar si este libro te gustará. Actualmente no hay Conversaciones sobre este libro. [Trigger warning] With more and more survivors coming forward with experiences like Vanessa's, this story is an unsettling but important read for those who can stomach the subject matter. The author's unveiled a layer of complexity that allowed this story to make a long lasting impact on the way I think about abusive relationships, sexual consent and protecting children and/or survivors. What was good: - The slow and steady progression of Vanessa's relationship with her abuser, Strane, communicated how insidious his grooming efforts were. This man was nothing if not patient. His character struck a perfect balance of condescending (without being blatantly cruel) but affectionate and validating enough to keep kid Vanessa (who is friendless, what a coincidence) coming back for more. This was so profound that adult Vanessa's self-image continues to revolve around how this man saw her at 15. The way these exchanges were portrayed showed how easy it is for anyone, teenage or otherwise, to fall into the clutches of one of these people. - Stane's impact on adult Vanessa's psyche and behaviour. Throughout the story, she excuses his actions by reassuring herself (and others) that what had happened was not was as it seemed and that she had been a willing party. And that she was just one of those teenagers just matured faster. Or that he was the only person to see how extraordinary she was. As nauseating as these thoughts were to read, it made it so much clearer how ruinous and significant Strane's abuse continues to have on adult Vanessa. She would rather sooner continue a lifelong devotion to the man who ruined her life and romanticize their relationship because she couldn't bear to come to terms with the effect he had had on her entire life. When that rationalization became clear, I was devastated. Because of course - accepting a less excruciating truth may be something everyone does to one degree or another. I feel so relieved to be done with this book. To be honest, I had little expectation when I started listening to the audiobook. If it was a kindle or paperback, there's a big chance I would have dropped reading this book out of anger. Even if I liked the writing, the story made me depressed and frustrated. Not because it involves teacher and student or the big age gap or any other moralistic views. In fact, I read this because of everything I mentioned. The thing that made me angry about the book is one, Stain, S-T-A-I-N, yes, I'm writing his name as a stain. I wonder if the author chose his surname for this reason. At first, I was neutral and felt giddy about their forbidden relationship like Vanessa was, but the moment it becomes clear that he was nothing but a manipulative coward, I wanted to claw his face. He used Vanessa and tossed her aside when his position and honor were at stake when he's the one who seduced her first. The second character I hate is Vanessa. Yeah, I'm not on her side either. Although I hate stain more, she doesn't make it easy to like her either, scratch that, every character annoys me, especially the stupid journalist. Vanessa was fifteen, yes, but FIFTEEN YEARS OLD have minds of their own! They may lack experience, but they are not mentally undeveloped. They're not stupid. She let stain used her, then later made stories about herself instead of outright saying she was manipulated. I get it, I feel to murder stain too, but Vanessa disguised her disgust for him as "love." It got under my skin how she keeps describing everyone's aging body. What's wrong with aging? The problem with these men isn't their age. What makes them ugly is the way they behaved. PTSD? Please, I suffered PTSD which took more than 15 years to get better, and what I "see" while listening is a whiny woman who never matured from her fifteen years old self. Sometimes she even gives off victim playing vibe. To end this "review" I'd say that what I like the most in the book is the part where she didn't let that journalist use her too. Would I recommend the book? Ah, it's complicated. I didn't hate the book; I like it even? I think. But it annoyed and depressed me. It's dark and... it's complicated. So I'd say, if you're curious, try it reading it. Blood brilliant! I was engrossed in this tale of abuse and the inner world of the protagonist. Devastatingly honest with a beautiful twist re: the "victim" of the story and the relationship between both parties. Russell's balancing of the subject matter was psychologically masterful; she gets right into the mind of those involved and pulls us in so many directions we are left reeling. Ideally be an adult if you are reading this - and I don't just mean chronological age. If you can't handle such a deep, often disturbing, topic I'd say steer clear. This isn't for those that simply can't separate their own beliefs about a situation with the artistic portrayal of said situation.
En helstøpt, sitrende og akkurat passende ubehagelig Metoo-roman, som lugger deg i din moralske hjerterot. «Min mørke Vanessa»: En historie om forbudt kjærlighet? Nei. Eller jo. Men nei. Mens jeg som leser røres inn i en grumsete grøt av lengsel, erotikk, løgner og manipulasjon, blir jeg likevel i tvil til tider. For hvor går egentlig grensen mellom overgrep og destruktiv kjærlighet? Hva er definisjonen på maktmisbruk, og når og hvordan gjelds prinsippet om samtykke? Ikke minst: Hvem er dommerne som definerer? PremiosListas de sobresalientes
Exploring the psychological dynamics of the relationship between a precocious yet naïve teenage girl and her magnetic and manipulative teacher, a brilliant, all-consuming read marks the explosive debut of an extraordinary new writer.
En 2017, durante la ola de acusaciones de agresión sexual contra hombres poderosos, Vanessa Wye se ve envuelta en una polémica. Su antiguo profesor de Literatura, Jacob Strane, ha sido acusado de abuso sexual por otra exalumna. El escándalo desencadena en Vanessa una multitud de recuerdos del tiempo que pasó en Browick, un idílico internado en Maine, cuando tenía quince años. Allí, en sus días de estudiante ambiciosa y precoz, mantuvo una aventura con el magnético profesor Strane, que logró persuadirla del efecto irresistible que ejercía sobre él. Ahora, casi dos décadas más tarde, Vanessa se enfrenta a una decisión imposible: callar y convencerse a sí misma de que su relación con Strane fue consensual, o enfrentarse al trauma que marcó su adolescencia y tratar de reconstruir su vida. ¿Será capaz de negar aquel primer amor y rechazar finalmente al hombre con quien ha seguido en contacto a lo largo de los años? ¿Fue amante o fue víctima? ¿Es posible que el hombre que ella amó y que juró que la amaba, fuera un perverso y manipulador? Alternando entre el presente y el pasado, la memoria y el trauma, los deseos y las emociones de una adolescente al descubrir el poder de su cuerpo, Kate Elizabeth Russell se revela como una magnífica narradora. Mi sombría Vanessa es una novela de lectura inquietante sobre uno de los debates que mejor definen nuestra época: el consentimiento, la victimización y la fina línea que los separa -- No se han encontrado descripciones de biblioteca. |
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Do NOT read this book if you will be triggered by the subject matter. It is explicit and painful, and it is never-ending. It is unrelenting, and if you think you will be triggered by this book then do not read it. If you think this will help you in any way, and I am sympathetic to the belief that this content is helpful for people with trauma, I urge you to be fully aware of your body and mind, ask yourself if you feel ready, and put the book down if you do not wish to continue. To anyone reading this, I wish you well post-reading, or pre-reading if you're reading through reviews to decide if this is for you. ( )